My god talk about a fast response I only posted just over an hour ago. Thanks for the responses a lot to think about already.
I dont think the 1 series coupe would be for me. I'm at that time in life now where a family could be a posability in the future. So I want a grown up car thats fun to drive plus economical and practical enough that when we eventually do start a family I wouldnt have to get rid of it straight away. Sounds a bit boring I know.
I have wondered about the BMW in the winter, a few friends have said they are bad in the ice and snow with them being rear wheel drive, but as you say winter tyres would sort that out.
Not thought about a Skoda Octavia VRS I must admit I missed that one what are they like to drive?
I know the prices are a bit steep and I relise that alot of it is for the badge. I'm not looking to buy new as that would be well outside my price range. I will be looking at cars upto 3 years old I think.
Think when the time comes the only thing to do is test drive them in turn and see which one I prefer.
Thanks for the replies keep them coming all input is welcome.
Kris