I find the IAM site both funny and sad, in that it's comical how the smallest thing said can start off a huge row yet really I'd expect the posters to know better.
About 6 months ago I got back in to my local IAM group with a view to becoming an observer. Initially I found it very strange that they didn't want to a) give me some training or b) test my driving skills. It was infact 8 years since I'd taken and passed the IAM test.
I think the classroom sessions they run are quite good when backed up with on the road guidance but the think that is kind of putting me off at the moment is the lack of interest in observers improving their own driving.
One major point I've picked up from HPC driving over the last three years is that the more you know, the more you realise you don't know as well. Yet this appears to be the opposite to all of the local crew I've spoken to briefly. Maybe they have some secret driving club I don't know about
I'm not really sure now that I have the patience to teach people that aren't already at a reasonable level and might make this my first and only associate. Maybe I discovered doing this that I'm rather selfish in that I thought it might be a way to help improve my driving but I'm struggling to see the benefit at the moment (apart from the obvious ones to the associate).