plumber wrote:From the earlier contribution from "trashbat"
concerning my point of seperation"...In essence, that was too late and he should have already been in the correct gear by that time - earlier actions would have allowed additional time for the other driver to have accomplished his manoeuvre without causing any grief.."
An interesting point. I was told by Senior observer (Police C1) That you should be at your turning speed and off the brake about an arctic length from the point of turning, which I planned to do, to give a 1 to 2 second lag to make an unhurried change. How far back up the road then do you need to plan to have changed gear when turning right from a 30 road into another 30 road? Half a mile? a mile? stop dead to allow everyone who could turn across you. I am a very patient driver but not that patient.
It wasn't my advice, but someone I quoted. I do agree with it, although I feel it does not run counter to what the observer told you.
I'll start by saying it's very difficult to translate a written description of precise motion and timing to/from real experience, so I'm not going to attempt it. However an illustration might help the matter. I'm going to take a guess at one of many possibilities of where you were, and guess at
here. Is that correct? The mouth of the junction is wide so influences how to analyse what you wrote.
At which stages in the complete manoeuvre do you think the 'indecisiveness' was communicated?
Also, think about it in terms of your own perspective, but with the other driver's behaviour in mind. If you HAD been intending to let him go first, but without having to explicitly stop or direct him to do anything, how would you have driven?
What are the commonalities between the two?
If there are sufficient similarities, perhaps you could look at what you can do in that phase. There is flexibility here whilst still complying with separation: early vs heavier braking, early vs late arrival at a steady turning speed, early vs late gear selection, to name a few.
If there are insufficient similarities, that would suggest to me that your wife was wrong and the other driver made an error not influenced by your technique.
I haven't read the whole thread but I also hope that someone has pointed out that Roadcraft has a piece on this sort of problem. I quote from page 69:
"When drivers first learn the system of car control,they separate braking and gear changing and try not to overlap. The problem with this approach to tight turns is that if you brake some distance before the turn to avoid an overlap you can confuse other drivers with unexpected results ... Approaching drivers preparing to turn into the same junction may think you have slowed to leave space for them to turn ahead of you"You should read the whole piece that this comes from, as it is slightly out of context here. Be aware that it is recommended for only very limited scenarios, and the description above may not even fit that in the OP. If it does fit, then it should not be used to write off the separation technique in non-exceptional applications.